I keep attracting crazy women that make my life a living hell...

First off, you met her at an AA meeting, so you knew going in she had baggage even with 4 years of sobriety.

Secondly, don't for once think you "permanently destroyed the relationship" by your actions, her inconsiderate, b****y attitude was all the ammunition you needed to kick her to the curb. From what you've said she straight up disrespected you all night. Can you really say to yourself that you'll ever look at her the same after the things she said?

Lastly, stick to your guns. You said that you never wanted to have anything to do with her anymore, so do it. Let it go. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. You know now how she is and that it can, and very likely will, happen again. Do you really want to have to leave her in Spring again? Probably not, so don't make the same mistake twice.

 

This thread is really reminding me of a previous thread. Except that time I think the girl left the guy out in the middle of nowhere.

 

Well, you left her in the middle of nowhere and she hasn't called... Are you sure she's okay?

 

I am sure that people will laugh at me for saying this, but I think you messed up when you had sex with her. How long did you know her before doing that? Was it a couple of months? Shorter or longer?

Maybe I am crazy but sex should be the culmination or finale of a long conquest - one that had lots of bumps in the road but in the end was worth doing. Having it this soon makes relationships empty and hollow, IMO.

Flame away.

 

Especially "very perverted and gymnastic" sex.

 

Get this down on paper and sell it to Quentin Tarantino.

 

Manny,

I think this kid respectively disagrees with you.

 

And you're complaining? Sport **** her and be on with it. It's sex, not love. Lord, why are men so feminized these days! Take it for what its worth and move on if you want a "relationship."

 

Truer words have never been spoken.

 

synergy,

That picture is classic!

 

This does make a good story for Tarantino if you finish it, let's say the cops show up at your house the next day looking for the girl. They ask you peculiar questions and note that you were the last person to see her. She been missing now for weeks. You feel as if you are being accused of the crime.

Your love for her slowly turns into a deep depression. Trying to escape these sleepless nights, you stay up at night and think, and on one particular night, during a raging storm, with a drink in your hand, you pursue the mystery of her dissapearance. You retrace your muddy steps to where you dropped her off and the clues begin to surface. In a damp rain, and blinding darkness, acold trail filled with her footsteps wanders off into an old rickety house. You followher footsteps as raindrops fall like marbles.

The house has no windows. But You wander through the front door and into the basement of the empty house, see a body on the floor, stumble down the basement stiars, and crack you head on the cement below. All goes black. With dried blood on your forhead you come to, and just as you do, you hear the floorboard above creak, you rush up the basement stairs, and something rushes to the basment door. The door at the top of the basment slams shut, sealing you and a thick darkness in the basement. Fear begins to seep in. What is happening here?

The body your were looking at is now gone. But Blood and body parts are everywhere. You hear maddening screams coming from upstairs as a blade is sharpened. Grappling with your own fear and depression, you grab an old bloody pick from the basment, and do what nobody expects you to do, you head up the basment stairs. The Screaming intensifies with every step you take. You burst through the basement door and in horror you see your girlfiend draped in blood screaming. Once and for all, you do what nobody expects you to do, you take the pick and drive it through her back until she slumps on the floor. You take her down into the basment, and cut her up like the other girlfriends that drove you crazy

Roll credits and rain.


Public Advisory: this is make believe and I do not condone in anyway my fictitous plot.

 

I agree with PSJ, cagey. Tarantino sucks.

 

That doesn't sound much like Tarantino to me. You might want to stick in some 70's music in there.

 

I'd say more a Stephen King short story...

ALA

 

Conquest???? Please tell me that was a bad choice of words? That sounds like you just wine and dine someone as long as it takes just to have sex. Once conquered, it's all downhill from there.

Sex and a relationship do not have to be mutually exclusive. My wife and I had sex on our first date. We dated 3 years before we got married. In October we will celebrate our 18th anniversery. It's the relationship that has kept us together, not the sex.


cagey said

Sounds like this girl has serious commitment issues. As soon as y'all began "dating" she began to sabotage the relationship. Move on, dude.

 

Are you sure it's not that crazy women attract you and not that you attract crazy women?

 

You might be right in some cases, but I can't agree with you here. By his account she was a crazy b****, but hid it well until they had sex. At least this way he got laid and found out that the relationship wasn't worth it before he invested a bunch of time and emotion.

 

You're right Behad - bad choice of words on my part. I meant more like a long journey and if you want something that is worthwhile, you have to go through some bumps in the road. Obviously, it isn't downhill once you get married (at least not for people like yourself, my sister, my parents, and millions of others that are happily married) but I can see where one drew that conclusion from my poorly worded post from this morning.

 

You left her along in Spring!

Some soccer mom in and SUV is going to get her!