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07-21-2012, 07:53 AM
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Picture Andres wearing a Raiders jersey.
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07-21-2012, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Jontro
Just break it off... tell her why and don't look back.
No need to wait around or try to get even.
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hi, I know this isnt my thread and I might be kind of semi-hijacking it, but can you tell me the logic behind this? I've always heard people advise this to guys who've been cheated (or anything similar) on, but I really don't quite get the reasoning behind this.
I always thought of it as just a spectator trying to reduce the drama to as minimal so if its his friend he doesn't have to deal with all the drama/consequences on the friend being revengeful or reacting badly to the ordeal. Kind like it doesnt hurt a guys ass if hes just talking stand up (bad analogy I know but you get the meaning). Or is it really beneficial to the guy who got cheated on to just do nothing and walk away. Because I'd think the burning flame inside the guy who got cheated on would be better subdued if he decided to take revenge on the bitch.
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07-21-2012, 08:43 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Jontro
Just break it off... tell her why and don't look back.
No need to wait around or try to get even.
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I agree.
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07-21-2012, 08:45 AM
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That's a ****ty feeling man. But you know, that happened to me once and I gave her a second chance and she did it again a year or so later. So, keep that in mind when you are deciding on whether or not to forgive and forget.
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07-21-2012, 08:54 AM
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Demote her to f*** buddy . . . .and don't tell her.
Just start looking for the next . . . while getting what ya want there.
Start withdrawing all the good stuff you been doing and treating her like a f*** buddy.
Mark the day and time. . . . [which this thread will do well enough]
and when she wants to have THE TALK . . .say oh . . . after you F*** you ex that night
I figured we were not as serious as I thought . . .. *shrug*
It's no big deal . . . .
say it with a straight face
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Never retreat . . . Never surrender
Rocket River
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07-21-2012, 09:05 AM
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Been there. Just let her go and move on, best thing to do.
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07-21-2012, 09:13 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Shaud
Bitches ain't **** but hoes and tricks
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Lick on these nuts and suck the d***k.
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Every time I see James I get a little Harden.
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07-21-2012, 09:21 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by FLASH21
Lick on these nuts and suck the d***k.
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lol
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07-21-2012, 09:24 AM
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You already look like a insecure beta phaggot because you drove by her house and then Facebook stalked her brother and exes. Just end it with the cheating whore, cut out all communications with her and wash your hands and be done with it.
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07-21-2012, 09:25 AM
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Clearly, you need to, without any comment, get a white mustang with black stripes. Would freak her out pretty nicely, in a David Lynch kinda way.
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07-21-2012, 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted by W22_STREAK
hi, I know this isnt my thread and I might be kind of semi-hijacking it, but can you tell me the logic behind this?
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I guess different folks have different ways of going about it. An ex cheated on me a long, long, long time ago, before I was even born, that's how long ago it was. Initially I was pissed, it's only natural... but in the end for some reason I just broke it off, gave her a piece of my mind and never looked back.
She ended up dating the guy (whom I didn't know) and from what I heard they had a horrible end to their relationship. It happens, I just let it go. I could have done something stupid back then had I followed my emotions or listened to my buddies and really regretted it. I didn't, moved on, found someone better, and life is good right now.
I don't keep up with her, but last I heard, years ago, she was still bouncing around between relationships. Doesn't sound too fun. I don't regret my decision at all.
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07-21-2012, 09:38 AM
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I would have confronted her right there. Now she can just deny deny deny
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07-21-2012, 09:43 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by W22_STREAK
hi, I know this isnt my thread and I might be kind of semi-hijacking it, but can you tell me the logic behind this? I've always heard people advise this to guys who've been cheated (or anything similar) on, but I really don't quite get the reasoning behind this.
I always thought of it as just a spectator trying to reduce the drama to as minimal so if its his friend he doesn't have to deal with all the drama/consequences on the friend being revengeful or reacting badly to the ordeal. Kind like it doesnt hurt a guys ass if hes just talking stand up (bad analogy I know but you get the meaning). Or is it really beneficial to the guy who got cheated on to just do nothing and walk away. Because I'd think the burning flame inside the guy who got cheated on would be better subdued if he decided to take revenge on the bitch.
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Living well is the best revenge. - George Herbert
Revenge is for the immature and the emotionally retarded. - Frank Herbert
By seeking revenge you continue to let that person control your actions/thoughts, it's better to move on and live life on your own terms.
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07-21-2012, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted by TracyMacAddidas
I went to a concert tonight with some friends in ft. lauderdale (i live in miami), i told my girl to come but she said she was having a girls night out so okay fine by me. We stopped texting around 11 pm when i sent her the last message "be safe tonight baby" she never replied. Thought it was kind of fishy so around 430 am while im getting home i decided to drive passed her house. I saw a white mustang with black stripes (or dark blue couldnt really tell, prolly an 09') parked in her drive way. At first i thought it mightve been her brothers but being the paranoid **** that i am... i go home & start my investigation. I look on facebook to see if her brother has any pictures of his car, none. So i go through her tagged pictures, i remember she told me her exes name is andres.. So i click on his profile pictures, suprisingly enough (not really) one of his photos is a white mustang with black stripes (he's a transformer). I dont want to jump the gun or anything so i wont say anything til im sure of it but im not ****ing dumb so its probably the obvious.
Now at first i thought it was space city but he only drives a red mustang... Lol im trying to add humor to this so i could feel better but i actually feel like complete ****.
I dont really know where to go from here but i sure as **** believe in getting back at her.
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Should've knocked on the door, smiled...laughed...pointed...then walk away, never to return.
I choose to forgive her, as we all make mistakes...but it doesn't mean you have to continue the relationship. Once a cheater...
...and you don't want to catch an STD.
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07-21-2012, 09:57 AM
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call up this man.
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07-21-2012, 10:05 AM
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Advice from insanity wolf....it's insanity wolf so you guys should already know that it's nsfw, but this one isn't too bad
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There is not much difference from Davis and John Henson. Other than where they were drafted.
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07-21-2012, 10:05 AM
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The bitch texted me this morning saying "good morning  ". I think im gonna go with Rocket River's idea but ill make sure she's cheating before I go forward with whatever i decide to do. Ive been with the girl for about 5 months & i liked her a lot but ill live.
To convictedstupid, her house is on the way to my house, she lives about 5 minutes away so its not like it was a hassle. Plus you need to keep an eye on bitches, you need to keep two eyes on miami bitches.
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07-21-2012, 10:06 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Rocket River
Demote her to f*** buddy . . . .and don't tell her.
Just start looking for the next . . . while getting what ya want there.
Start withdrawing all the good stuff you been doing and treating her like a f*** buddy.
Mark the day and time. . . . [which this thread will do well enough]
and when she wants to have THE TALK . . .say oh . . . after you F*** you ex that night
I figured we were not as serious as I thought . . .. *shrug*
It's no big deal . . . .
say it with a straight face
and
Never retreat . . . Never surrender
Rocket River
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best thing to do there
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07-21-2012, 10:08 AM
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I agree with Rocket River. That's what I did when I was in this situation years ago. But I guess I'm petty like that. Still, it was satisfying to start acting like a dick, getting mine, then just coming and going without explanation. It went on for nearly a month before I told her I knew what she was up to. She cried, I told her to leave. And I kept her dog too.
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07-21-2012, 10:09 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by TracyMacAddidas
The bitch texted me this morning saying "good morning  ". I think im gonna go with Rocket River's idea but ill make sure she's cheating before I go forward with whatever i decide to do. Ive been with the girl for about 5 months & i liked her a lot but ill live.
To convictedstupid, her house is on the way to my house, she lives about 5 minutes away so its not like it was a hassle. Plus you need to keep an eye on bitches, you need to keep two eyes on miami bitches.
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Did you ask her how her night went?
It would be interesting to see the fabricated story.
Sucks that you have to go through this, but its probably for the best that you found out at this time...rather than finding out later or never finding out.
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