My ex-girlfriend won't leave me alone, what do I do?

All that "I'll end my life" stuff is just a desperation attempt.

Keep that psycho b**** kicked to the curb like a rusted out Huffy.

 

I did not read what you had to say, but I can has pics pleeze?

 

If your comfortable with it, then stay away

 

Easier said than done?

 

Depends on how she looks.

Drama is a high price to pay for high quality ass.

 

So, she says she would tell her mother if you got back together, but not otherwise? I would say staying broken up is probably the best course of action (ignoring her might be more extreme than necessary; it sounds like she needs some closure). But, if you were going to entertain a resumption of any kind of relationship, I would think telling the mother that she was in the relationship would be the ante before any negotiation could start.

Sorry if I haven't followed (or remembered) the drama from the other threads, but why doesn't she want to tell her parents? She's 23, for chrissakes. I got married at that age; shouldn't she show a little independence?

 

How the hell do you know about Huffy's?

To the OP, I feel you. My ex has been pulling this stuff on me for the last 3 months, also. (and I have been just as guilty of giving in, at times.)

The best thing to do is remain silent. This last tirade is out of desperation to have you respond. Sort of a last act. Expect another few messages of outrage that you'd rather see her die than respond.

It sucks, and I'm empathetic, but if you've kept silent this long, remain so. Unless you actually want to head back down that path.

 

Don't give her hope. Keep up the ignoring. Women are like monkeys- they need another branch in hand before they let go of the last one. She will eventually find another guy and forget about you.

 

I used to have a Huffy. It fell apart quickly.

But to the OP, listen to this man... he knows your struggle.

 

You might want to talk to her. Just one conversation, but it's your call.

I had a girl that I broke up with threaten to kill herself and I blew it off and she actually tried to OD on pills...ambulance, stomach pump, the whole deal.

Obviously she had some mental issues and I just blew it off and she almost died. Might be worth a phone call to tell her that it's over one more time.

If she does try something stupid, you need to understand that it isn't your fault...she just has some mental issues

 

if you are worried about her safety you should send an anonynous letter to her mother, all the other stuff about getting back together is a decision you'll have to make on your own, but the instability should be warning enough

 

haha.. this made me laugh. also, they tend to try to go back to you if the next guy dumps them quickly and they realize how good they had it.

 

Show her the black gloves to let her know this is not a game.

 

I don't think it's a good idea to talk to her. If she gets what she wants by threatening her own safety, then she knows which button to push anytime she wants you to talk to her/even possibly get back together with her. That is a dangerous precedent to set in a relationship. If, God forbid, she does do something to harm herself, or attempts to do so, she is a troubled person to begin with.

 

Dude, get away, and stay away. Not only will you be better off for it, but like you said, maybe she will learn that harming herself accomplishes nothing and stop. The next guy in her life will be thankful.

 

Buy a gun and off her.

 

The suicide threat is a lame attempt to get you to call her back, but if someone is willing to stoop that low, who knows what else they're capable of? Maybe ONE phone call just to reiterate that it's over, and that you don't want to bear her burdens anymore is necessary? I just think that it's clear that she has maturity issues, and that she's the kind of person who ALWAYS wants things done on her terms. I've been down a similar road.....it's bumpy as hell, but at the end, you realize that your mental health is more important than anything else. If you do end up calling her, just make sure the conversation goes the way you plan it to....don't waver. She is going to say things that will make you want to reconsider, but at the end, they are just words, and things will go right back to the way they were once everything blows over. Girls like that are creatures of behavior. You've shaken her world once, but she'll just go back to her ways again once she realizes all she has to do is throw a tantrum to get her way.

 

1. Tell her about clutchfans and the thread you started. Can't wait for the drama to unfold.

2. Totally ignore her at all cost and eventually she will stop.

3. Go back and perform the Ann Hatheway and take pictures. Then dump her ass and tell her if she is going to be a phsyco B#@ch again Momma is getting new pictures of her daughter.

4. (While recording on tape) Call her and have her explain to you again why,what,etc.etc. and have her include the death threat, your lying, the guilt she put upon you. Then send her a copy and tell her to review it. Sometimes she needs to hear herself so realize what a physco she is becoming.

5. If she continues after you performing #4 then send the tape to her parents/friends/past boyfriends lol

Seriously the chick needs to realize she lost something good and needs to move on. She probably just realized it's hard to find a guy of your caliber. (Honestly I'm not sure what kind of guy you are)

2 months and she still acts like this?