About to drive out to my bio Dad's house and literally kick his front door in

Don't do anything you might regret later. Not worth it.

 

all these years we never knew that moniker actually stands for Disciple of Restitution Payment

 

It's not worth it

 

Plus one on not being worth it. you and your wife is doing good. Why risk going to jail?

 

Kick farthest away from the hinges, near the lock if you go through with it. But maybe sleep on it.

 

So you are letting someone else control your life to the point where you are risking all that you have built up through your hard work.

Sound like you have a lot of hate there brother. You have three choices:

1. Let it consume you and potentially burn up your life. Think about what this means for your wife in particular.

2. Forgive him. This is the best and hardest answer, and also the healthiest for you.

3. Bury it in your subconscious. Don't think about it, focus on you, the positives in your life, and where you are going. Btw, some of your drive and success may be due to his abandonment of you.

Oh, and pics of wife please as it sounds like she may be coming on the market.

 

Tyler Durden

 

I'm sure TS is passed out on his keyboard (thankfully) but come on dude. Wife, kid, about to do a kick door? Sounds like brilliant logic to me

 

Crush a bit, little bit, roll it up, take a hit
Feeling lit, feeling light, 2 a.m., summer night

 

You will surpass whatever level of despicableness or irresponsibility you feel on your father's part in one fell swoop. You need to go look at your sleeping wife, or thumb through a photo album or some old family photos. I don't know if you have kids: if you do, you're literally repeating your father's mistakes and compounding your own heartache and pain to another generation.

You've lived a long enough portion of your life as an autonomous adult to have made your own happiness and prosperity, if you're still blaming dad for things then you need to examine where you've fallen short, materially, professionally or emotionally.

If you have any friends who are social workers or in the family court system, maybe get some war stories to add a little perspective.

 

You don't need anything from him, don't do it.

 

You're situation is not unique and you're neither in the ethical or emotional right. Think about Monday morning and whether you're rather be in arraignment for theft and/or manslaughter, or clearing your Outlook inbox for $50 - 75 an hour, brainstorming lunch restaurants (or an afternoon quickie with the missus), and spending the 2:00 - 3:00 pm crash pricing putters online.

 

Advice to pouhe

Don't start advice with the phrase "You're situation is not unique." That just makes you a condescending dick that no one will listen to.

good luck in your life of giving people advice.

 

No, challenging you on your awkward, self-referential threads clearly aggravates your own insecurity; compels you to project your own frailties in midst of a genuinely troubling and developing situation, and fixate on innocuous phrases to exact some kind of rhetorical justice and create a hollow pretext for your childish invective and vulgarity.

 

sorry, this doesn't make sense. We are trying to follow you, but you make it hard.

You need to sober up. Whether it's adrenaline or liquor or drugs....that explanation makes no sense.

Stop thinking. Chill. Sit down. Talk to your wife.

Where is you wife, right now, btw?

 

your advice was condescending. sorry you don't understand that. Stop with the ad hominem crap to paint an argument for yourself. Who are you, and why are you being a pissant out of no where.