So it would be okay if another guy had his pecker in there, just as long as it's not oral? Or our you talking about any type of sex?
i find nothing degrading about oral sex. nothing's hotter than looking at my girl right in the eyes as she's doing the deed. i don't live giving much though. too much work.
It is a love based of giving and receiving as well as having and sharing. And the love that they give and have is shared and received. And through this having and giving and sharing and receiving, we too can share and love and have... and receive. When I think of the love that these two givers and receivers share, I cannot help but envy the lifetime ahead of having and loving and giving.
A thread about oral sex started by a poster named Dookie Sandwich. Seriously, it really doesn't get much better than this...
Well. let's just say I prefer smooth peanut butter to crunchy. And I think you know what I'm talking about........ Actually, I have no idea what that means....but it sure sounded nasty.
I don't know if in your poll the ">" and the "<" mean "it's BETTER" or "it's GREATER"... What is it exactly? I voted "=". Uhh... what if it's a guy you're involved with...? Hmm, I used to have the same psychological trauma. I couldn't stand the thought of having my Significant Other do the fellatio, 'cuz then I'd think about later kissing, and it might have been a no-no... but then I thought, if I also did the deed on my SO and... well, it's a give and take 50% kind of thing. I would joke around with my brothers about it, and their response was always "Well, I hope you NEVER get married... 'cuz it will be the same person doing it to you all the time...! " Now I am not that traumatized by this, I tend to just stop those thoughts from happening... if they want to do it to you, just let'em... "lay back and enjoy." I really enjoy giving it and have been told I do an awesome job. I am not gloating, I am just feeling proud of my accomplishments... and letting you all know that if you're willing to test it, make sure you TEST on someone who won't care how you do it, or someone whom you know you won't be doing it on AFTER you may fail to do it well. (sorry, KingCheetah, I know you don't understand my ENGLISH ) Does anyone remember the Andrew Dice Clay bit about "bisexuals" and "Do these f*ckers get up in the morning and flip a coin to decide?"
When a new inmate comes in, how do you initiate him? I make him toss my salad. Toss your salad? What, what is that? That's having your a$$hole eatin out with syrup or jelly. I prefer jelly. Why? Cause when a man is sucking dick he can think it's something else. When he's eatin a$$, he knows it's a$$. --- The great Chris Rock.
Why do you even ask that...? If you CAN do it, and you WANT to do it, do it. Here's the way it goes: If you thought about it, someone has probably already done it. If someone hasn't already done it, you'll be the first one to do it. I guess what I am trying to say is, from an advisor standpoint, YES. Now, do I, or would I do it?
I voted the give = receive option. There are times I like giving it to her more than receiving and vice versa. However, my wife always has better orgasms if I give her pretty good oral sex. So, I always try to please her in that respect because all I care about is her getting off.
What a great friday thread... Funny, when I was growing up, it didn't happen a lot and was rare when it did...Now, its apart of society, meaning, everyone does it and not just on special occassions...I'm a giver, but equality is best... It's a must for me...unless she's skanky... Hmm's post...I got to think about that...
I'm a giver. I give. It's just the kind of man I am. However, if both are in the act simultaneously, it kicks it up notches unknown to man-kind.
Receiving is awesome...I used to not like it too much, preferred my boyfriend used his hand...but he's amazing at it now, and i'm a LOT more comfortable, and i always reach *it*... Giving is cool too because knowing that i can please my man is a huge turn on for me. It's been kind of an emotional thing, our adventures in oral sex...i didn't know my way around a mans area BEFORE, and i was utter crap the first time i tried it...but we've both gotten so good at it that it's a wonderful addition to our time together... The only thing is, I don't see how people can use it as foreplay...when we've both already come and we're hungry and a bit worn out, we're not going to go at it for another 30 minutes...
Okay I know this is TMI but you train yourself not to come - at least not that soon. The mind can be incredibly powerful.
When you get to be my age, it's the appetizer before the main course. This is an area where experience pays immense dividends.
