Thanks kid! Always here to help. Ooohh, uuuhhh, yeah I know that caption is kind of, umm, off, so yeah, disregard it y'all (it was the best clown pic I could find).
Just remember the next time that you are kissing this girl, that the funny taste is her boyfriends dick. Maybe you will choke on one of his pubes too.
Here's another excellent example of how you reek of immaturity. You need to learn to take responsibility and accountability for your actions. The term "$hit happens" doesn't apply here - YOU'RE making this happen (and she is, too).
Perhaps we both want to make it happen, regardless of our situations, this doesnt necessary makes us into immoral assholes, it makes us human. Yeah she cheated on her boyfriend, and yeah yeah i kissed a chick while dating another... $hit happens. As far as your immaturity comment, well if you say i am, then i guess i am... but dont act like you`ve never had a side dish... and if you havent well you should be called St droxford around here cause i can promise you that most of the people here have cheated, will cheat, and you know what they probably arent that immature... at least by my standards.
Errr... most people have cheated? I would agree that a lot of people cheat. And yes, cheating is not a moral thing to do regardless of whether most people do it or not. I can't even believe such a point even needs to be argued. And your girlfriend could see it as "$hit happens", but not you. As droxford said, you are the one who is doing something. It's within your control. I do give you some credit by saying you want to change, and you have acknowledged some points made by others here. That's a good start.
i'm not sure what to think of this all. yeah, i can see how "**** happens." but when you say that, you are not taking ownership of what happened. you are right that cheating does occur but that doesn't make it okay. you are making excuses for yourself. first thing to do is to tell your current girl (not matter how loose that rltnship is) that it is over. even though ya'll are not serious, i'm assuming she does have some feelings and you should respect that. i think it's wrong to pursue the new girl while she has a long term bf. and i think that even though you are lying to yourself and making it all seem ok, by you even starting this thread shows that you know it's wrong. confront her abt her bf situation and ask her to sort that out first. you care about her, you want to get to know her, etc. but put the ball in her court. just remember, if she's doing this to her bf now, it could be you next and think of what you would want. be respectful for the other parties and yourself. stop being selfish no matter how sweet the cake looks. you're setting yourself up to make everyone miserable just to get some pleasure. i can't help to judge you and all others like you. and no, i've never cheated on my bf before.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but since when can you have someone you call your "girlfriend," and at the same time classify it as an open, causual relationship ? I've never been big on the titles thing, but I would think to call someone your girlfriend/boyfriend indicates some sort of commitment to that person and to that relationship - neither of which you've shown. Stop calling her your girlfriend, pal - if you treat her like that, she's not your girl and she's not even your friend. Would you treat a friend like that? You're just a typical guy who thinks that he's doing nothing wrong and that "sh&% happens" Sadly, its not an age thing, but I do agree with other posters in the fact that its a maturity thing, hands down.
No... That's EXACTLY what it makes you - immoral assholes (BOTH of you). In fact, that's just about a dictionary deffinition of it. Don't sugar-coat it by calling it "human". Say it with me: INFIDELITY IS NOT OKAY Ugh - read my previous post. We have no way of knowing who cheats, and who doesn't. True, it's not uncommon. But there's no way anybody here can say that everyone has/hasn't cheated. If you've grown up around so much cheating that you view it as 'normal', 'human', or acceptable, then I pity you. And regardless of whether or not it's common, it's a very, very crappy thing to do. And I'll even give some info about me: I've been married 9 1/2 years. We have a 5-yr-old daughter. I've NEVER cheated (in any way) on a girlfriend or my wife or any woman I've been in a serious relationship with. EVER. That doesn't mean I'm a saint. It means I'm a responsible, dedicated, mature and committed spouse. And it's quite obvious that nobody has ever taught you that there are emotional consequences to having sex with someone. The fact that you so carelessly regard casual sex makes a huge negative statement about you - It's like a neon sign over your head that says, "hey look - I've got emotional problems!" And your posts only support this statement. I suggest you break up with your girlfriend. Stop seeing the other girl. Stop going out with women entirely for a LONG time (years) and start learning what life is all about.
Dude, break it off with the girl who you`ve have grown apart from. The new girl sounds like a head case, but you would know more then I. If shes messing around with you while in a relationship, what makes you think if you start going out that she wont screw around on you....the "I`m lonely" line doesnt hold water, never has and never was. Good Luck
Ditto all this. Except for me it is 7 years, 2 daughters, all without cheating on anything. I can't believe, aries, that you are still defending cheating as a "human" thing or that "$hit happen$." It's WRONG whether you're in Mexico, Asia, Antarctica, or New Zealand. Please don't tell me you would like ALL your family to do the same things you do (including future wife, kids, etc.) You make me want to start a "Have you cheated on your significant other?" poll.
