Don't worry about it too much. It seems more like you have trust issues. Find a partner you can trust and work it out.
Hmmm that actually makes sense to me because all the girls I've been with, I've only known for a week max.
Well a case can be made the hetero p*rn is subversively gay. I mean you're seeing another man's dick (multiple sometimes) inserted and sucked.
It can be more to it sometimes though, a buddy of mine dated the same girl for like a year and a half, never got off, they both verified this haha. Then they break up, he starts dating some new chick, a month later he's got a baby on the way. Moral of the story: wrap it up Rafi
been there bro. I couldn't bust the day i lost my virginity. She was older and wouldn't believe i was a virgin bc i kept pounding away for an hour till i got so frustrated and couldn't perform anymore. I was super depressed bc it was my first time and i felt like a b****. To this day i still have up and down problems. I can go 10 min, and then i gotta work myself back up with my hand and then go another 20 etc, but its still very hard for me to bust without being in missionary(works every time for me). Only busted once in my life with oral and that was in a hotel room with other friends having sex with their girls too. So ya, i think it's a p*rn issue for me as well, although its also an issue of attraction. I've been with mostly curvy to thick to fat girls, but i'm crazy for tiny and petite girls that never like me. It just so happens the greatest sex of my life was with a petite older woman who i rarely had problems with the years i knew her. What's funny is i was about to jerk b4 browsing and finding this thread. I don't know how to quit cold turkey. I feel much better using pictures of women in bikinis instead of hardcore p*rn. Maybe try that first.
Eat more bananas, they're known for high levels of serotonin. If not use the banana to get freaky :grin:
No, but I do smoke a lot of weed. another thought: would wearing a condom help at all? perhaps the fear of actually cumming inside her and getting her pregnant could be the physiological sense about it?
Maybe you're subconsciously worried about the FBI beating down your door for posting underage nudes of someone else.
You need to change your mentality and persona. Run into the room and exclaim "it's Rafi time!" using excessive hand gestures. Then pretend you are Brad Pitt and go at it.
Thank you for the pertinent post. OP, you need to drastically limit (or even cut off entirely) your masturbation to online p*rn. The extremely high degree of sexual stimulation (MILF, bondage, student/teacher) and variety of females is most likely why you're experiencing inhibited ejaculation. Although you may maintain an erection now, because the novelty of your GF's appearance ended by the first encounter, because the feel of her vagina around your penis versus your hands is so different, because your brain remembers how many choices you have available at the click of a mouse back home, this is why you can't ejaculate. Eventually, you will experience performance anxiety: your inability here will create a positive feedback loop where your penis won't even harden anymore. Moreover, you might not be that attracted to your GF to begin with. Cut the p*rn, and find someone you really care about more than superficially. Don't let ridicule prevent you from seeking advice. This problem is becoming more and more prevalent among men with the rise of broadband internet.
Stop watching p*rn immediately. This is without a doubt the problem. It may be difficult to stop at first but you will notice improvement. You are only 17 so it shouldn't take too long to reset your limbic system. You have been conditioned to masturbating to p*rn. I had somewhat of a similar problem when I was younger and blamed everything but p*rn. I quit the habit and within a month I was back to normal. You cant ejaculate unless you look at p*rn, the answer is right in front of you. Young men all over the world are experiencing difficulties because of p*rn. Did you know that most men who buy viagra are in their 20's? Why do you think p*rn sites advertise Viagra? Brain scans have proven that p*rn has also been shown to be as addictive of a habit as cocain. This site can help you. It also has a forum with an astounding number of people experiencing the same things you are going through. Good luck. http://yourbrainonporn.com/
Fake it. Or you can say she's not doing enough or turning you on enough to make you ejaculate. Maybe she'll let you hathaway it or do some other freaky stuff.
