I was wondering too if this is different for men and women. On the surface it seems like that men separate it more than women but I've known a few women who are able to separate it. Anyway what got me thinking abou this topic was some of the posts in the "Growing up thread", Jeffsters' comment in the C*ckblock thread about premarital sex and also a conversation I had with a female friend of mine, not girlfriend, who had been telling me the day before how she slept with some guy just for the sex but then felt bad about it because she didn't care about him. My friend is in her early 20's and for me I think when I was younger I had times when I mixed up love and sex and only stayed with someone for the sex but didn't really love them but as I'm getting older I find it easier to separate the two.
I work with a girl who came into my office (no pun intended) about 2 hours ago and told me she just started seeing this guy from Puerto Rico. He is moving to NYC in 2 months and they hook up nightly. Both know he's leaving and there will never be a relationship. Her words - "we're just using each other to get our rocks off for the next 60 days - then i'll find someone else to handle the deed" this - from a woman both men and women can see sex as just a form of entertainment - like watching a movie, or going for a run.
It's an interesting question. My answer, you ask? Well, let me just say this: I've had sex with HUNDREDS of women.
from a female perspective... The older I get without finding my "true love" the easier it is to separate the two. Ten years ago, I would have said yes, every guy I slept with I thought I loved. From 21 on.. well its easier to distinguish which partners I cared about and which were just booty calls. Ima... you devilish musician you
Okay, I had no idea you are a lady. Please post a picture of yourself for proof. Thanks very much in advance .
LOL. To tell you the truth, I was actually just making a point about how silly it is to brag about all the women you've done on the internet. I see it a lot on here. The truth is, I can count the number of women I've had sex with on one hand. Spoiler
If you can't tell the difference between making sweet love and having sex, well, then you have never loved before, imo.
