I promise this will work... 1) Tell her about a big night you plan to spend with her(dinner,wine, dancing the works) and make her look forward too it... 2) after you've picked her up and are halfway to your planned evenig, tell her that you FORGOT YOUR WALLET. If she says for you to go back for it, insist that it is to too late and it will ruin your evening together if she doesn't pay... 3) HER REACTION WILL TELL YOU if you want to continue in this relationship and her attitude durring the rest of the evening will tell you what you have to look forward to in that relationship... 4) Scenerios: a) she pays for the evening, makes you regret it and you never see her again(free meal, decision made!) b) she doesn't pay for it anf makes you regret it (decision made!) c) she pays for the evening appreciatively(somebody gets lucky that night and you've got a "keeper!") 5) But, do it NOW, BEFORE YOU SPEND ANY MORE OF YOUR HARD EARNED PAYCHECK on a game-playing, conceited, cheap ho-bag who has her eyes on some guy at her gym.
She needs to know you are in control. Whip it out and show it to her in public, when she tells you to put it away, suggest a place where you can safely "hide it" Then she will do whatever you say, I swear... Porno movies have never lead me astray.
Weeks? Dam, life is all about taking risks. If you hit , you win big. If you miss, hey this is America, you pick yourself up and start over. If you just sit around an wait, opportunity passes you by. Wouldn't you rather know now if she considers you spongeworthy than to sit around with the blueballs for a month? And if she gives you the old 'let's be friends', your on to eHarmony one month sooner. Guys , I wouldn't be too hung up on the girl paying. If you ask a girl out , you pay. If you can only afford DiGiorno and a rental thats what you ask her to do. Hell, it gets awkward when guys try to split a check. One more thing. Most women aren't intentionally playing mind games. They are just as insecure as you are so it their wishywashyness just looks like they're plaaying games. And your wishywashyness looks like you are trying to play them and then you get a whole snowball effect. Be decisive and communicate your feelings. It is the man's job to go first.
Drew, Drew, DREW!! What are you doing my Man? There are WAAAAY too many cool, great-looking women in this town to be with a girl with those kind of flaws. I'm going out in Houston on Saturday.....I'll be at Red Door with girl's birthday party and they'll be many a hot ones. There are also many other hotties there!! Forget her!!
UPDATE: Ok so there is this 3 day concert that we are going to with various friends this weekend. We were supposed to carpool down there yesterday together around 2pm, but she had to work until 5:30 - no big deal she met me down there at about 6:30pm. While she was there she was in some kind of b****y mood - said she was tired - lunch wasnt sitting well, etc. Ok, Im an understanding person so I just roll with it. I roll the fact that she insulted my intelligence by claiming that chemistry was much harder than an advertising major justifying her "C" average in college. I roll with the fact that not once did she make an attempt to start conversation. And I rolled with the fact that she was condescending towards other people walking around - acting like she was better than them. I mean she was pretty much being a b**** the whole time for the most part. After she left, I started slamming beers and hitting on girls. I was so pissed. I ended up having a better time in the process. Unless this chick can seriously turn it around this weekend Im thinking about nicely dumping her. Like you said Khan, there are way too many beautiful and cool girls out there.
Drew, ditch the bioooooootch! You don't need that kind of drama and besides, from her behavior, it sounds like she doesn't have any respect for you (In other words, your previous desperate behavior towards her made you her monkeyboy). But first, in the words of Baqui99, before you give her the old heave-ho, "do in the pooper!"
