What is your definition of "a lot" of sexual partners?

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  1. Lady_Di

    Lady_Di Contributing Member

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    The other thread inspired this! :)

    What is your definition of "a lot" of sexual partners?

    Have you lied about the number of partners to your significant other?

    Should the significant other know how many you've had?


    I would say 20 and up is a lot for me for guys.

    I've lied about my number once to a guy I dated. He was a prude.

    I strongly BELIEVE that this should not be an issue between two in a relationship. If the guy I'm interested in asks me how many I've had, I tell him that it's irrelevant to us. As long he knows I'm clean and I know he's clean then I'm happy. I don't see why some people are so gung ho about knowing their significant other's number of partners. Does it make any difference? It just put a crimp in the relationship.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. SwoLy-D

    SwoLy-D Contributing Member

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    What is your definition of "a lot" of sexual partners?
    YES

    Have you lied about the number of partners to your significant other?
    YES

    Should the significant other know how many you've had?
    YES

    :D
     
  3. xcharged

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    I'd say "a lot" of sexual partners would be between 15-20.
    you do mean at one time right?
     
  4. texanskan

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    I lie everytime, I find out her number and adjust mine down as much as I need too
     
  5. bladeage

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    Depends on your age and gender... if you are 18 and have already had sex with more than 5 guys, that is alot.

    But if you are 25 and you have been with more than 5 guys but not more than 10, then its not alot.

    For guys more than 50 is alot.
     
  6. the futants

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    As many as possible? At least that was my thinking back in the 80s...
     
  7. ima_drummer2k

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    Oh, man…this thread is going to be good. Please stay away from the played-out “useless without pics” post…

    I would say it depends on age, but anything over 10 is a lot for my taste. I’ve only had 4 partners before my fiancée but I’ve never dated a girl for less than 2 years. Steady poontang is much better than sporadic one-night-stands IMO.

    I can’t wait to see all the guys here start bragging about their ‘conquests’…. :D
     
  8. rezdawg

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    So i know if the girl I want to marry is a whore or not.
     
  9. thegary

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    i agree with Lady_Di.
    we should screw as much as possible.
     
  10. meggoleggo

    meggoleggo Contributing Member

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    But what if she's given up her whoring ways to settle down with you, and you'll be the last partner she ever has?
     
  11. TeamUSA

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    the more the merrier.
     
  12. Deckard

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    You have to pay for it?
     
  13. xcharged

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    just to clarify...
    Is it?
    whores do it for money
    sluts give it away for free
     
  14. DonkeyMagic

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    good question. I have no idea. if youre mid 20's and you are over 15...i'd say thats pushing "a lot", no pun intended. If I met a girl thats 25 and she said she'd been with 16 guys, i'd question a bit.

    You'd like to think that is you are sleeping with someone you are with that person for a decent amount of time.

    I didnt lie, but looking back i think i forgot to add a couple. :eek:

    Should they know? That's the biggest issue.

    I think it's a guy thing to want to know your womans past, but it is a double edged sword because if/when you do know it can be a burden (especially if you dont like the answer). Maybe it has something to do with competition, wanting to be the best, wanting to have a "clean" woman....I have no idea

    I havent been in many relationships and when I was it was when I was younger (late teens-early 20's) so I havent dealt with actually hearing a big number. But i'm sure that will change when you date in late 20's...unless I go young of course ;)

    I don't know if girls think about it like guys, i.e. whether they want to know. :confused:

    Regardless, chances are your girl has had all sorts of nasty things done to her...especially where you are kissing, you just have to forget it and hope that she learned some good tricks :cool:
     
  15. texanskan

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    I don't really care if her number is a little bit high but I do care if she has had one night stands/spring break flings/threesome's etc etc
     
  16. K mf G

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    me and the wife first got together when i was 19 and she was 20
    the subject of how many has never came up
    i'd before her i had a lot of partners
    she may have had 1 but i think 0

    we've been together twelve years total
     
  17. meggoleggo

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    What do you care about her threesomes? Maybe it's 2 girls on one guy. Wouldn't you want to be that guy?
     
  18. Master Baiter

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    You should know if your woman is a slut or not without having to ask. Personally, I don't want to know. I don't think it has anything to do with the present.
     
  19. DonkeyMagic

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    And Brother Roy even helped Claudia give up her whorish ways
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  20. moestavern19

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    If I cloned myself and had a threesome with my girlfriend and my clone would that make me a bisexual or a narcissist?
     

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