Is this stalker behavior?

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  1. rrj_gamz

    rrj_gamz Contributing Member

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    agreed, but not in a pyscho stalker way...IMHO, there is nothing wrong with this, even a little flirting is healthy IMHO...however, if you find yourself constantly thinking of her, and wanting to "accidently" run into her somewhere and following her to place, then it's time to check yoself, before you wreck yoself...

    Put it another way, if your Sig. Other did this, wouldn't you be PO'd, if you found out? if I did this, and my g/f found out, she would go ape*****...no lie...so i don't put myself in situations where a) I could mess up; b) I could get caught... :eek:

    btw, link to her lawfirm pics please... ;)
     
  2. DonkeyMagic

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    Not stalkerish at all. Even us married guys have to have a little spank-bank material every once in a while, ya savvy?
     
  4. pgabriel

    pgabriel Contributing Member

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    okay, stars aligned?

    I bump into this guy in the building that I played flag football with and know from high school days. hadn't seen him in at least 7 years. he says he's meeting someone from such and such law firm, and I'm like, dude they have the finest lawyer, he's like who, so and so, I'm like you've got to be freakin kidding. so i get his number, I actually have a connection, still not in a place in my life to start dating again, but I can't believe this just happened.
     
  5. SwoLy-D

    SwoLy-D Contributing Member

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    Any time you're gathering information about someone and it's "none of your business"... and they don't know or have no connection to you... oh, yeah, you're stalking, buddy. :p

    I kid.

    Why couldn't you just approach her and say hello? I don't see why you can't. If you're married or are in a relationship with someone, then you should tell that someone, and then it's a totally different question.

    Seriously, though, don't be a coward. Ask her all the info you know about her already yourself, and see how much she's willing to tell you, if you're trying to court her or become her friend.

    And now you're HOPING and WISHING that this connection with your former friend is your way IN, your stalker circle might be complete.
     
  6. superfob

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    pgabriel, find out if she likes short, funny, quirky, bald men. Just have your wife lick the invitations. Pick the cheap ones, you'll thank me later. :p
     
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  7. conquistador#11

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    It's only stalking if you never make a move. Go for it!
    A wise Ferris bueller once said, " Life moves pretty fast. If you don't hit that, you might miss your chance."
     
  8. da1

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    Go talk to her quit being a coward you have nothing to lose.
     
  9. pgabriel

    pgabriel Contributing Member

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    The lady I started this thread about ended up being Amanda Edwards the city council woman.

    I would see her campaign and never paid attention till i saw her on Khambrel Marshall's show one morning when she was elected. I couldn't believe it
     
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  10. The Hunted

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    Man where have you been? She's definitely a looker and based on a quick non stalkerish Google search, still single.
     
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  12. pgabriel

    pgabriel Contributing Member

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    I was banned for a while. Rightfully so. Never thought I'd come back but glad to see a lot of you still here

    When I caught her on Houston News Makers I still wasn't paying attention. It was playing in the background. She said she worked at Vinson Elkins in Municipal Finance and I finally looked up cause I remembered that from her profile

    I was like THAT'S HER
     
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  13. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    She is fine.
     
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  14. Dark Rhino

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    Recreational stalking = no harm, no foul.
     
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  15. cheke64

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    She look ok. She looks very approachable.
     
  16. Jugdish

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    Man, city councilwoman...you blew it...think of all the contraband you'd have had access to.
     
  17. Bäumer

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    [​IMG]

    Since none of you bums posted a pic.
     
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  18. Air Langhi

    Air Langhi Contributing Member

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    I don't think I could name a single city council member. How many people know who these people are?
     
  19. cheke64

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    You can put me on speaker and I can talk to her for you. "Aye aye aye lil mamma you look fine, let me get that number"
     
  20. JuanValdez

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    I do.
     
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