Is this stalker behavior?

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  1. RoxSqaud

    RoxSqaud Member

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    Listen to the whole song lol.... :grin: .....its actually pretty good.

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  2. Mae

    Mae Member

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    I don't think there is anything wrong with looking her up, even if you do find her on FB and other social network sites. They are public and if she doesn't want you to see them you'll have to be her friend then. I would think that it becomes stalker-ish if her FB isn't private and you go to it every day to see what she posted. Or you continue looking over her pictures and such.

    Be careful, if you happen to run into her one day, not to use her name when you meet her if she hasn't introduced herself yet. That could go something like this ::

    "Accidentally" runs into girl.

    "Oh, I'm sorry," says girl (we'll name her Britney.)

    "That's okay Britney. It was totally my fault." OP walks away.

    Now Britney is left with the creepies and talks about you to all her friends, "I think I've got a stalker. I just ran into this guy. I don't even know his name, but he knew mine. OMG. What should I do?"

    :grin:
     
  3. Dave2000

    Dave2000 Contributing Member

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    I see nothing wrong with it, its public information

    Its just like companies looking at potential employees' social profiles, its public info that can be looked up
     
  4. bobrek

    bobrek Vamos Los Astros

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    When you apply for a job, you are inviting a company to look up your information. When you are simply living your life and someone starts looking up your info, that is different.
     
  5. Dave2000

    Dave2000 Contributing Member

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    True, its public information regardless, its just how far u go to use the info you have

    With him just looking at a website that anyone can access and in the same building as him, doesn't scream "stalker"
     
  6. AroundTheWorld

    AroundTheWorld Contributing Member

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    So anyway...if you found her on a social network, I think you should share the link with us. TIA!
     
  7. SWTsig

    SWTsig Contributing Member

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    you must not know any women.
     
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  8. v3.0

    v3.0 Contributing Member

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    lots of rationalizing in here lol

    doesn't "scream" stalking, maybe murmuring
     
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  9. Bojangles

    Bojangles Contributing Member

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    lol no kidding. then again starting a thread and asking will usually lend itself to a certain type of reply.
     
  10. dback816

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    Don't matter as long as it's not physical.

    Keep at it.
     
  11. Mr. Brightside

    Mr. Brightside Contributing Member

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    It's not stalker behavior unless you are beating off to her picture on the company website.
     
  12. vinsensual

    vinsensual Member

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    Sounds like a challenge
     
  13. Jontro

    Jontro Member

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    Wouldn't need to be stalking if you introduce yourself and become friends.

    "Hi I'm Bob, a happily married father of 4, but you seem interesting. Coffee?"
     
  14. jasonemilio

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    Pics or GTFO


    Or in the case, LINK or GTFO :p
     
  15. finalsbound

    finalsbound Contributing Member

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    what could possibly go wrong?
     
  16. Cohete Rojo

    Cohete Rojo Contributing Member

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    Repeat after me: I was conducting an extensive background search before engaging with her in intimate relations. The police will buy that hook-line-and-sinker.
     
  17. DaDakota

    DaDakota Contributing Member

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    Link to her profile please.

    ;)

    DD
     
  18. aghast

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    A good rule of thumb. But what if it's inordinately high-res?
     
  19. ChrisBosh

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    I've had someone stalk me during my university days, trust me your stalking game seems similar to that of Stromile Swift's basketball IQ level... nonexistent. However everyone starts off somewhere, hope you don't continue this with other timely run-ins...
     
  20. Hayesfan

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    as much as it pains me to agree with Kam...

    this is not stalker-esque

    but if she's hot and your available you could move to more stalker-ish activities to see if she is available ;)
     
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