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For dudes over 30 and never married

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Kyakko, Jan 30, 2012.

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  1. tonyg6891

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    27 and never married. Had some good and bad relationships. Have no interest in getting married or even being in a relationship period. Too much time, work, and money to invest in a gf right now. Since my late teens I was always in relationships or messin around. Tired of it and taking a good long break. Get married when you're ready. Not when society, family, or pressure from a girl tells when to.
     
  2. mleahy999

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    That doll pic was absolute gold. Feels so good and so wrong at the same time. If you're over 30, I would recommend you move on to the next step of life and get married and start a family. Don't become that old lonely guy.
     
  3. gnozahs

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    Pics of hot sister in law please.
     
  4. finalsbound

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    don't listen to this guy
     
  5. Classic

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    hilarious thread

    I hit anniversary #5 next week. No regrets.
     
  6. Prempeh

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    Churchill said democracy was the worst system of government, except for all the others...
     
  7. dmenacela

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    I'm closing in on 40. Never married, played aplenty. I've seen friends married, stay married, get divorced, or stay single. I believe you just play the cards you are dealt with. There's never a rule on when to get married. Settling down with the right person happens to you when it feels right. You will know because it will just hit you. Never force it because you have to!
     
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  8. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Get that wisdom outta here!
     
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    You are the miserable one sir:eek:
     
  10. mleahy999

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    If being single works for you then that's great. I just think it's a wonderful thing to have your own family and highly recommend it. However, not everyone is marriage material. That's why there are spinsters. All the pretty ones were spoken for long before they hit their mid-30s. You have to work at it. Exercise, cook something delicious, bend the knee. Hopefully someday you'll meet a nice life partner who returns your generosity in full and share their name with you. Best of luck.
     
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    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Good lord what a condescending and insulting post.
     
  12. finalsbound

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    haha. look troll, i was purely responding to your pathetic advice to the MEN in this thread to settle down once they hit 30. that's pretty much the worst advice ever, a recipe for bitterness and regret. maybe i know too many men who got married around that age because it was expected of them, and are either incredibly unhappy or were fleeced in a divorce.

    i guess if you have no other options and can't function on your own and need a mommy-wife to take care of you, sure, get hitched to the first woman who will take you. but if you're a desirable male with decent luck on the dating scene, WAIT. wait until you meet someone who you are head over heels in love with and who doesn't have to convince you to get married. whether that's at 25, 35, 45, or 55...don't let dudes like mleahy999 drag you down the married-before-you're-ready abyss.
     
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  13. B-Bob

    B-Bob "94-year-old self-described dreamer"

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    Just want to give positive reinforcement to this part of your post... before you went full jackass.
     
  14. Joshfast

    Joshfast "We're all gonna die" - Billy Sole
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    I bet you felt good typing that, I similarly feel good calling you an *******.
     
  15. macalu

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    my happiness isn't dependent on someone else. i'm not so insecure that i NEED someone. if that person comes along, great. if not, so what? i'm sorry you can't function on your own.
     
  16. spdngyns69

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    Such a role model. You must me be marriage material...
    until your wife has met me. ;)
     
  17. spdngyns69

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    If he can dish it, he can take it.
     
  18. ChievousFTFace

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    Science disagrees with you.

    http://www.mckinleyirvin.com/blog/divorce/32-shocking-divorce-statistics/

    Of all divorces for women, 80.6% of them happen under the age of 30.
    Of all divorces for men, 72.8% of them happen under the age of 30.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_at_first_marriage

    Average age of first marriage are 28.9 years for men and 26.9 years for women.

    Furthermore, children of divorce are more likely to get divorced. Rushing into a marriage for the sake of getting married only increases the chance of a cycle of divorce for your kids.

    Stop being a judgmental and elitist douchelord.
     
  19. macalu

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    serious question. what's the point of marriage if divorce is allowed?
     
  20. ima_drummer2k

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    I'll see you in HELL.
     

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